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Replay Howard Glasser's Free Teleseminar: You Are Oprah: Igniting the Fires of Greatness


  
Listen to the replay of Howard Glasser's free teleseminar for his announcement about his new book, what's coming this year, plus Q&A at the end:

 


  

Yes, you can purchase the new book here:

 http://www.energyparenting.com/products/item22.cfm

Preface from You Are Oprah

by Susan McLeod

Howard Glasser once said to me "'Why' is overrated. It's unimportant. A waste of time. I just really don't care about why."

Earth-rocking words, coming from a therapist.

I had previously held the notion that unearthing 'why' is the reason therapists exist. But not so for Howie. With his simple formula, you don't have to dredge up or trudge through the sludge of the past to be your greatness. You don't have to hit the couch or the mountaintop to get yourself fixed. You don't even have to fix others or the circumstances of your life to be great. No kidding.

Having been a devotee of 'why' for decades, I am exquisitely conversant in the ideas presented in most of the best-selling self-help books. In them I have found inspiration, comfort and hope -- but no lasting change in me. Before my exposure to the ideas in this book, I lived with constant awareness of a checklist of my shortcomings that needed to change and an understanding of each that was nothing short of poetic. Life wasn't about greatness; it was about doing the best that I could despite all of my 'whys.'

All the while, I lived with a nagging suspicion that I was great…a knowledge, in my heart of hearts, that I wasn't nearly so flawed as I'd made myself out to be. How to release that greatness into action, into my daily life? The stick of religion didn't prod me to my greatness; the carrot of enlightenment didn't entice me to my greatness. But birthing a challenging child did, because it created a crisis in my life that led me to Howard Glasser.

My happy family bubble popped when my firstborn son turned out to be an intensely challenging child. It was hard to accept that I -- who studied early childhood education, who holds a master's in communication, who taught children's church for a decade, who knows the power of thought, the impact of words, has faith to move mountains, has the spirit of GOD -- yes, that I was being overtaken by negativity and a punitive parenting cycle as fast as blue sky retreats from thick black storm clouds.

 

The conventional solution was Ritalin for my son and Zoloft for me. Pills to make it all go away -- to make it all better. That's the best wisdom the world offered. Thank GOD I had the wherewithal to say "No thank you." I didn't want to thwart what seemed like the butterfly's struggle to escape the cocoon -- a necessary fight for life, freedom and transformation.

Thus began the search that led me to Howard Glasser and the Nurtured Heart Approach -- the approach that Howard developed to transform difficult children into their greatness. I read the book, implemented it in my home, and it indeed worked like a magic pill! It revolutionized my relationship with my challenging child immediately and permanently. It gave me skills to pull him and our family from negativity into positivity and success.

But there was more. My emotions roiled while I read The Inner Wealth Initiative: The Nurtured Heart Approach for Educators. I cried over not having had the approach to help my son the first four years of his life. But mostly, truth be told, I cried for myself, wondering what I would have been like if I had been raised with his approach.

At the next 'girls' night out,' I related the approach to my two closest girlfriends. Neither of them have children. Their immediate reaction was: "Everybody needs that! Let's do that with each other. Let's use the approach on ourselves." So the adventure began. I started to take the simple principles and techniques from the parenting approach and applied them to myself. I began to re-parent myself for greatness.

Did it muzzle my inner critic? Finally kill her off once and for all? Oh, no, a much finer fate was in store for her: With Howard's approach, I transformed my inner critic to an inner greatness coach.

My experience is far from the first time Howie's approach has transformed an adult. For the past 12 years, every time a parent coach, an educator, a therapist or a social worker finds his approach, light bulbs start popping about the myriad of ways to apply it. When Howie teaches adults the approach, as he has to thousands, they get pretty excited about using it to help others transform. But they are in utter awe of what it does for them personally. Just being immersed in the energizing greatness environment that Howie's work creates is deeply transformative.

And his protégés are using the approach in so many ways. Substance abuse addicts, couples in crisis, foster parents, social agencies -- all have been helped immeasurably by this work, which boils down to letting go of those 'whys' and stepping into one's inborn greatness. As for me, this is the most freeing thing that's ever happened in my life. I let go of why and stepped into the power of how to fan my own embers of greatness into a roaring fire that fuels my passion.

I don't recall my shortcomings. I don't care about my whys or your whys. Thanks to Howard, I now know HOW to see my greatness, be my greatness, live my greatness. Now. Anybody can. There's a reason Howard Glasser isn't into why. The gift of his own intensity to the world is found in his name: he brings us a simple no-fail formula for HOW.

And guess what? It's not about changing. It's about choosing. That's one power we all have, and Howard Glasser shows us how to use our choices to transform ourselves.

You can purchase it here:

 http://www.energyparenting.com/products/item22.cfm